That's one thing we can't plan for. It's out of our control. So we're hoping that we don't go into labor on the same day and we're able to be at each other's births.

Our ultimate goal was for Raquel to get pregnant, so we were very excited about that. I've been through so many disappointments. We were excited that I was pregnant also, but with my history, we were still a little guarded.

She offered about three years ago to be a surrogate and we were hoping we wouldn't have to be faced with that and hoping to have a child on our own, and when the doctor said that's our last chance to have a baby no our own -- is to have a surrogate, we called Raquel, and she was so honored that we came back and asked her, she started crying.

We always said we wanted to raise our kids together. So it's kind of funny how things work out. Now we're having my babies together.