Well actually it's great and the reason why is my husband is deploying to Afghanistan and having a business and being responsible over something while he's gone will occupy my time.

Unless the public is satisfied that the election process has been done fairly and the winner has won fair and square, there's a real question about how the next president will govern, whoever he is.

Talking helps to clarify what you think you want and lets people know how you want to have decisions made for you. You don't want one stray comment to define you. Probe more deeply.