"David Gage", also known as "Davy" was a New Zealand rugby union footballer. He played with the 1888–89 New Zealand Native football team, and represented New Zealand national rugby union team/New Zealand in 1893, and once in 1896 – where he captained the side.

Gage was born in Kihikhi, New Zealand to a M?ori mother, and British born father. After an early education in Auckland, he was awarded a scholarship to attend Te Aute College in the Hawke's Bay. After joining the Poneke Football Club of fellow Te Aute old-boy Thomas Ellison in 1887, he made his provincial debut for Wellington Rugby Football Union/Wellington in that same year. It was probably at Ellison's suggestion that he was selected for Joe Warbrick's Native Football team that toured New Zealand, Australia, and Britain in 1888 and 1889.

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