If you are spending a couple days there, at the very least, bring a bottle of wine and some flowers.
"Rebecca Renee Black" is an American singer, dancer, and actress who gained extensive media attention with the 2011 single "Friday (Rebecca Black song)/Friday". The song was co-written and produced by Clarence Jey and Patrice Wilson of Ark Music Factory. After the video went viral video/viral on YouTube and other social media sites, "Friday" was derided by many music critics and viewers, who dubbed it "the worst song ever". Between its upload date on February 10, 2011 and its temporary removal from YouTube on June 16, the video received around 167 million views, gaining Black international attention as a viral star. Black re-uploaded it to her own channel three months later.More Rebecca Black on Wikipedia.
People think they are not being polite if they are honest. Our feelings matter as well as everyone else's. Women have a harder time at that, we are supposed to be accommodating and sweet.