He was slow to make friends. But when he made friends they were friends for life. In fact, they still come every year on his birthday. They come to the house and we have a cookout and a party and we go to the cemetery.

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If you have faith, that's what's going to get you through.

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It brings it all back. It makes us sick. We feel so much for the families. We sit and cry.

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In every possible way you can never imagine how your life is changed, your holidays have changed, your everyday life has changed, how you respond to people, how you look at people.

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Don't be afraid to take it. Don't be ashamed of taking it because you're going to need it. Those people who love you are going to be there to help you through it.

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