It is not giving children more that spoils them; it is giving them more to avoid confrontation.

To offer a man unsolicited advice is to presume that he doesn't know what to do or that he can't do it on his own.

Men are motivated and empowered when they feel needed. Women are motivated and empowered when they feel cherished.

The process of learning requires not only hearing and applying but also forgetting and then remembering again.

Just as women are afraid of receiving, men are afraid of giving.

To love someone is to acknowledge the goodness of who they are. Through loving a person we awaken their awareness of their own innate goodness. It is as though they cannot know how worthy they are until they look into the mirror of our love and see themselves.

All men and women have an equal need for love. When these needs are not fulfilled it is easy to have our feelings hurt, for which we blame our partner.

A women under stress is not immediately concerned with finding solutions to her problems but rather seeks relief by expressing herself and being understood.

Generally speaking, when a woman offers unsolicited advice or tries to help a man, she has no idea of how critical and unloving he may sound to him.