If you want to understand your partner, you have to listen to their life stories, where they came from, their life experiences. You can't be selfish. You've got to realize the other person has needs just as important and as valuable as mine.

People begin to feel more distant and disconnected, and often times, they begin to feel unsafe. We have everything intact to be healthy in our relationships. If it's not taught or nurtured, it goes dormant. Part of us becomes lost.