This year it's helping me as much as it's helping them because I lost my grandmother earlier this year. Even as adults we feel we have to be strong. I think there should be something like this for adults.

Coming here makes you realize that all the things you think are going wrong are really OK. Just as a person, it makes you feel you can't be that petty when a girl tells you they're the last in their bloodline. I've seen kids who've walked up the hill and back and they are coming up to me and giving me a hug.

It offers them a shoulder to cry on of someone who understands. This shows them if they are angry or sad, it's OK.