These are symptoms or warning signs that abuse is taking place or may have taken place.

You need to find something that can buffer holiday stress ...and allow down time to self preserve. People need time to just chill, relax and enjoy each other.

You catch them doing something right, you notice and you mention it. So they can see and decide for themselves that it feels better to be told something good.

We all know families that are struggling or dealing with different things. And we don't know what to say or what to do.