You will one day be so proud of all your children, don't impede their progress now by pretending that being gay is a crime or a disease or 'a rebellious act'. It isn't. It's just like being born with red hair or dimples. They are what they are.

It's up to you to decide now, and what you choose to do about it will affect the rest of your life, and theirs. Enjoy your child as he is and make sure that he feels totally comfortable and safe and loved in his own home.