I'm sure it was really painful to her. She invested a lot of personal energy in it.

That's right. The other thing I found really amazing is one of the solutions is not to spend more time with your husband. Women react to stress and deal with stress by tending and befriending. So it actually makes a lot of sense to go out and hang out with your girlfriends. That might actually get you in the mood, because you aren't being a wife and mother. You are being a woman.

The More Marathon celebrates the strength of today's 40+ woman.

The divorce rate among women over forty is higher than in any other age group. Somebody called it the 17 and a half-year itch.

In our story, we talk about the fact that a lot of doctors don't have the training or time to talk to you about what those problems may be. You're better off these days searching for somebody who really has some training as a sex therapist. Of course, you can talk about that.