It's very delicate, not ostentatious, because the diamonds are so small.

When it comes to family, a lot of times they think the more the merrier, and it doesn't occur to them that the couple is paying $50 per person, or that space may be limited, or that the couple wants an intimate ceremony.

I certainly wouldn't say (wedding crashing) is an epidemic, but it does happen.

Changing your name legally, you write it down on the marriage license and it's legally changed. It's notifying everyone else in the world that's the problem.

This certainly isn't in Peggy Post.

Planning the nursery comes soon enough, maybe at the same time. Don't do both.

It's definitely bigger than it was 15-20 years ago. The trend is also toward having as many diamonds on the ring as you can.

The important thing is to present a united front. You and your partner must be on the same page as far as the style of the wedding, the budget and the size. Negotiate the things that are important to you.

People think it's harmless to sneak into a wedding, and it might be, depending on the situation. But it's still inappropriate and it could cost the couple a lot of money.