When he came to my home, he was just as nice as he could be, well-educated, well-mannered. We sat and talked numerous times together. We thought a lot alike. And I respected him a lot, I really did. This is what is so very painful for me.

I broke down and cried because the first picture they showed, I said to myself, 'That kind of looks like Ed,' but I really didn't pay a whole lot of attention. But the second picture that came up, I said, 'Oh, dear God, that man is dating my sister.' I knew that that was him.

They had talked about it, and I told her to just kind of wait and just make sure because marriage is such a big step.