Why can't you buy the right educational experience for kids, buy that magic package that gets them into Yale? It might work in deciding what car to buy, but it doesn't work into how to raise kids. It's a long slog.

He was taught how bad the Jews were; his father never told him the truth. Reality was kept away from the children.

I remember in the first grade, I got a report card that didn't reflect a whole lot of good work on my part. My parents let me know real early they expected me to apply myself in school. That was formative.