He was assigned to some of the most dangerous missions you can have. But it's what he wanted to do.

It's heartbreaking to leave a widow and four children.

It's a great honor. He died a hero. It's as simple as that. Everyone ? whether or not they lose their life ? everyone who goes into combat is a hero. We owe them our gratitude regardless of whether we agree with the mission or not. That's immaterial.

You see the ribbon on cars and trucks and flags in places and it is so abstract until it hits your family.