Before you were wealthy, life had limitations. Suddenly you have few limitations. Before, snowboarding in the Alps was a wish. Now you can afford it. But the wife may decide she doesn't want to do it.

IF you're out in public, getting tactile can up the anticipation factor no end. Touch your partner's thigh, brush their leg 'accidentally' under the table and whisper naughty suggestions. It may sound cliched, but it really does work.